How to Avoid Acquaintance Rape
Most people are better prepared to avoid an attack by a stranger than by an acquaintance. In
reality, you are much more likely to be raped by someone you know.
As a MAN you can:
- Avoid alcohol and other drugs as they cloud your judgment and understanding of what
another person wants.
- Understand that if a woman has had a drink she cannot give consent.
- Understand that forcing a woman to have sex against her will is rape, which is a violent
crime that has serious consequences.
- Accept a woman's decision when she says "NO."
- Speak up and/or get help if you see another man victimizing a woman.
- Seek counseling or help if you feel violent or aggressive toward women.
- Think about how stereotypes affect your attitudes and actions regarding sexual relations
and alcohol consumption.
As a WOMAN you can:
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Avoid drinking or drugs as they decrease your ability to take care of yourself and
make sensible decisions.
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Trust you gut feelings. If someone or a situation makes you feel uncomfortable - leave.
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Always leave social events with friends, not with someone you just met or do not know
well.
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Do not assume someone else knows what you are thinking or shares your values.
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Do not accept a drink if you are not sure of the contents.
- Do not leave drinks unattended. Doing so provides an opportunity for someone to drug
you without your knowledge.
- Communicate assertively and clearly. Be clear with yourself and the other person
about your expectations in your relationship.
- Everyone deserves respect! Expect respect and avoid those who do not show it.
- Know your own limits and communicate them clearly.
- Do not allow a person to touch you if it makes you feel uncomfortable.
- Avoid situations or locations that keep you isolated from others.
- Stay away from men who are overly critical or belittling of women.
